Well here I am, finally checking in with my blog…a few whole MONTHS since the debut of my new website and my last post. I sort of feel like I’m in trouble at school and I need to explain myself, so here goes.
Earlier this year, shortly after I began the process of designing my website with the great guys at 2BlokesDesign, I discovered that I was pregnant with my second child. It wasn’t a total surprise, as my husband and I really want another child and this was most definitely planned. Yet this pregnancy has almost completely turned my life upside down. Come to find out, I was pretty darn functional when I was pregnant the first time. I worked the entire pregnancy and actually did SEVEN weddings at Elliston during my eighth month. (And they were great weddings, big belly and all!) This pregnancy, however, has been the complete opposite of functional. I’ve been sick, exhausted and otherwise a big hot mess from the very beginning. I just passed the six-month mark and all the while, my biggest full-time job is still as a stay-at-home mom to a rather active two-and-a-half-year-old.
So, to make a long story even longer, we finished the website in May and since then I’ve been forced to slow down a bit. Many of the things I was working on to establish my new business have been moved to the back burner so I can take care of myself, my family and this new addition we’re bringing into the world. And at the end of the day, I have to stay grateful for that. That’s why I included the quote above. Some days, the only thing I accomplish is taking my daughter to the park to play. And while that task seems so little, it really isn’t. She’s growing so much every day and before I know it, we won’t have whole days together because she’ll be in pre-school, then elementary school, junior high, high school and then off to college. The little things have really become the big things, I guess.
Having said all this, I have been working still and I wanted to give a quick update.
~ Last month, I attended an intense 3-day business workshop in Southern California called Fight Club (I know, maybe not wise for a pregnant woman to participate in something labeled Fight Club!). But it was so completely worth it! The workshop was put on Jeff Jochum and his company TeamX.Biz, as well as Showit, the platform and service I use for my website. Jeff’s program is really geared toward photographers, but he and the others in the group were gracious enough to let me sit in. I really cannot even come up with words to describe how great and beneficial this was for me! I learned so much from him about why I want to do weddings and I’ve already made a few small changes to my website, with many more ideas on the horizon. If you’re a wedding professional, especially a photographer, I HIGHLY suggest looking into Jeff’s workshops and coaching services. Oh, and did I mention the entire 3 days were taped, broadcast live online and watched by hundreds of people? Definitely a lesson on stepping outside of your comfort zone to better yourself and your business!
~ I recently turned 39 and decided to spend the last year of my thirties doing a 365 Days of Gratitude project, posting a picture every day of something I’m grateful for on both Instagram and my personal profile on Facebook. Feel free to follow my journey at @kmeinhardt.
~ Nesting has already set in, so I’m DIY-ing like a crazy woman! I’ve got many projects that I’ve either completed or I’m in the process of completing so I decided to feature one on the blog every Friday, beginning this week. Figured we could all use a little weekend crafting inspiration! And I’m still obsessed with Pinterest…follow me here if you are too!
Everything happens at the right time. I’m grateful for all the blessings in my life and while my business has taken somewhat of a back seat, inside I’m raring to go. Any last minute weddings for this year are unfortunately out of the question, as I’m a stickler about making sure that I can be completely available and present for the couples I work with and that just isn’t possible right now. That has been a tough pill to swallow, but necessary to accept. 2013 will be a different story, both personally and professionally, and I can’t wait!